If you know me, you know I’m a huge fan of fostering animals…. which is when you temporarily house and socialize an animal until it finds its forever home!

In short, you’re a middleman/woman for an animal transitioning from a shelter to a future, loving home!

While snuggling with dogs or cats without having to make a full-time commitment may sound like a dream come true, fostering is a serious job and can mean the difference between life and death for millions of shelter animals!

Why? Because most potential adopters want to know what they’re signing up for when they decide to adopt … and when rescuing an animal straight from a shelter, that information isn’t usually available.

The shelter environment can be so stressful, that it literally changes an animal’s personality. I’ve witnessed animals go from adventurous to withdrawn, sweet and snuggly to fearful and aggressive or spunky and energetic to lethargic and hopeless.

So, it’s ONLY during that precious, precious time in a foster home, a newly released shelter pet can finally breathe a sigh of relief and decompress.

This decompression period is vital for us “rescue humans” to observe and learn what kind of personality lies beneath this broken soul, thus setting them up for the best forever home!

Being a foster parent and witnessing this transformation is truly magical. It’s a process that will light you up from the inside/out and show you the power of love.

It’s also the time when your parenting skills may be challenged (in the most comical way!) because you suddenly have a roommate that demands your attention…and is basically a stranger on four legs!

That means extra patience, pee pee pads and some good ole’ fashion surface cleaner should be within arm’s reach at all times!

Think of it like dating …. when you first meet a potential mate, it may take a few times before you start to “jive” with each other or learn the choreography of each other’s “dance” styles. It’s a process that can’t be rushed and must follow a natural timeline.

So, if fostering is SO fulfilling, why doesn’t everyone do it? Well that’s ALSO a great question that I’ve posed to many people, many times. While I totally understand that many people aren’t set up for fostering at the moment, the number one thing I hear is,” I wouldn’t be able to give the animal up.” And quite frankly, this answer breaks my heart.

I UNDERSTAND it and EMPATHIZE with it, but I can assure you fostering is not for YOU…it’s for THEM! You have to remove your “ego” goggles for a moment and remember that fostering is a CRUCIAL link to helping clear our shelters and save more animals in need.

So that brings me to why I’m writing this post! I want everyone out there to know that you won’t fall in love with every animal you foster!! You’ll care for them, help them grow, nurture them and teach them how to be a pet…but you won’t fall in LOVE.

I know it sounds harsh or cruel, but I promise you that I mean this in the most loving way…not every dog or cat will fit your lifestyle/family/dynamic. It doesn’t mean the animal is “bad” (because that doesn’t exist), it means there’s another perfect human in the universe who is making their way towards them and will give them the BEST LIFE EVER!

And even if you DO fall in love and feel a little heartbroken when they leave for their new home, I am here to share with you the absolute BEST news!!!


So basically…it’s a win win for everyone…so please go FOSTER TODAY!!!

My former foster dog, Lady!

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